Seriously what is the actual best app for sharing Christmas wishlists with a big family because I am running out of time and my sisters are already bugging me.

I have got about 14 people to coordinate for our secret santa this year in Chicago and normally we just use a messy group text but it is a total disaster every single year with people forgetting what they bought or losing the list. I looked at Elfster because it seems popular but I read some recent reviews saying the UI is super clunky now and it keeps pushing random ads for stuff nobody even wants. Then I saw Giftful which looked cleaner but some people on another thread said the browser extension doesnt work right on mobile and half my family only uses their phones.

My parents are in their 70s and if the app is even slightly confusing they just wont use it and then I end up getting three of the same toy for my kids. I need to get this set up by this weekend so people can actually start shopping before everything sells out or shipping gets crazy. Does anyone know an app that lets you just paste links from any site and actually tracks when someone buys it so there are no duplicates? Ideally something free because we already spend way too much on the actual gifts. I just want something that wont give my tech-illiterate dad a headache...